Want To Travel Better As A Couple? Do These 8 Things.

Traveling with a partner can bring up a host of challenges, from finding middle ground on activity and timing preferences to navigating logistics to dealing with disparate budget priorities. Although it can feel like a major compatibility test you don’t want to fail, taking a trip together as a couple doesn’t have to be a daunting experience.

“Travel for many couples is a bonding experience, a time to reconnect, an opportunity to tune out the pulls of everyday life and strengthen your bond,” said Tracy Ross, a licensed clinical social worker specializing in couples and family therapy. “Think of it as nurturing your relationship, a process of discovering other parts of each other and exploring what works for you as a couple.”

If you’ve gotten into spats and had negative experiences during previous trips as a couple, don’t despair. There are ways to improve how you travel together so that both partners can have an enjoyable time. Below, Ross and other relationship experts share their advice for stepping up your couples’ vacation game.

Communicate your expectations.

“Communication is key,” said psychologist and sex and relationship expert Melissa Cook. “Both individuals need to express their travel preferences and expectations as well as any concerns.”

Before a trip, you and your partner should discuss your goals and values as they relate to travel. Show an openness and interest in understanding what each person wants for the itinerary. Don’t make assumptions about what will or won’t work without having a conversation.

“Work on improving your communication skills,” advised Mabel Yiu, a marriage and family therapist who is the founding director of Women’s Therapy Institute in California. “Practice active listening and