It’s Time We Acknowledge That Older Sisters Are The Backbone Of Society

Younger children everywhere, you’ve been put on notice: Your oldest sister is tired of doing it all. On Reductress, a jokey headline declared, “‘Eldest Daughter’ Finally Added as Official Diagnosis in DSM-V” because of all the mental duress oldest sisters are under. (Though not an actual psychological diagnosis, the pop psychology phrase “oldest daughter syndrome” has hit a nerve with many oldest daughters.)

On TikTok, youngest brothers ― those diametrically opposed to oldest daughters in responsibilities ― jokingly apologize for doing the bare minimum in life and skirting the emotional labor that’s second nature to women.

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(It’s true: Big sisters tend to be overrepresented in powerful women lists. What doEleanor Roosevelt, Taylor Swift,Hillary Clinton and Beyoncé all have in common? They’re all high-performing older sisters.)

Eldest daughters see what needs to be done and do it ― but it comes at a cost, said Lisette Schuitemaker, the author of “The Eldest Daughter